Our daily schedules start with a wakeup alarm. A kick-start for being punctual at the workplace. Bathing, clothing, rushing breakfast and move to the local transport. Most of the working people do the same thing. At the evening we get back late due to the office work or due to the traffic congestions. At home we are not relaxed either, same stress continues there.
We all know the reality, what we are living is not the way to live or to survive on this planet. We all think a peaceful life, so what had made us so hungry that we are earning a lot but not satisfied
Youth of current generation had no idea where they are leaping. Money is following in the pockets to and fro. The new era of the country is making us hungrier for success. We are not stopping now. We are not satisfied with what we have
Today’s hunger for success had taken us far away from our own life. We spend less time with our family and friends. We are moving fast then what we should be. For our hunger we forgot the days when we were kids and use to go to the camps. The most fascinating experiences, yes where we really live for our self there are no worries. Enjoying the nature, with the green bushes and trees surround, hear the beat of our heart when we walk along the path, the birds singing, we can smell the nature, we can breath the fresh air.
Sunday, May 27, 2007
Live for Others
Are you selfish? What will be your answer, of-course the answer will be NO.
No one think that they are selfish. But I think I am selfish. I will not lie with my self. I am living here for myself. It’s not bad if we are selfish.
So what happens when we need some one desperately, but he/she doesn’t need us? The preference level for both the person differs. We understand it, but making it understand to our own heart is tough. We loose the joy of life. Some people commit suicide due to long depression. And such kind of emotional distress makes people to do that. What is the solution on this critical issue, rather we except the fact, but it keep pinching us spontaneously
It does create enormous pain, sadness and hopelessness. It cannot be explained in word and we cannot stop the tears of our eyes. We need the person we love. But we can’t make him/her love us. We had totally lost some one. There is no such feeling, which can make our days again, unless or until we forget the wounds. People say some wounds never heal.
When we love some one with true heart, we will never have any grievance again him/her. Rather its hurt a lot spending sleepless night with teary eyes
The only way to live with the unhealed wounds is to live for other, try to heal the wounds of others make us feel better. There is no great feeling then helping other to overcome their distress or suffering. Making others smile is the best medicine and making the person smile that had wounded us is True Love.
Life is precious so never loose it, live with what we have, and keeping on trying to achieve more in life, there are ups and downs in life. Without failure we will not understand the joy of success. Without a Heart Break we will never understand True Love.
No one think that they are selfish. But I think I am selfish. I will not lie with my self. I am living here for myself. It’s not bad if we are selfish.
So what happens when we need some one desperately, but he/she doesn’t need us? The preference level for both the person differs. We understand it, but making it understand to our own heart is tough. We loose the joy of life. Some people commit suicide due to long depression. And such kind of emotional distress makes people to do that. What is the solution on this critical issue, rather we except the fact, but it keep pinching us spontaneously
It does create enormous pain, sadness and hopelessness. It cannot be explained in word and we cannot stop the tears of our eyes. We need the person we love. But we can’t make him/her love us. We had totally lost some one. There is no such feeling, which can make our days again, unless or until we forget the wounds. People say some wounds never heal.
When we love some one with true heart, we will never have any grievance again him/her. Rather its hurt a lot spending sleepless night with teary eyes
The only way to live with the unhealed wounds is to live for other, try to heal the wounds of others make us feel better. There is no great feeling then helping other to overcome their distress or suffering. Making others smile is the best medicine and making the person smile that had wounded us is True Love.
Life is precious so never loose it, live with what we have, and keeping on trying to achieve more in life, there are ups and downs in life. Without failure we will not understand the joy of success. Without a Heart Break we will never understand True Love.
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
Self Analysis
An emotional distress few days back influenced me to do a research on myself. To know about me, what had caused such distress, why such emotional hijacking happed, were the biggest Questions in my mind.
So I started analysis myself for a period of time. Which had give fascinating conclusions.
You may feel it unrealistic but for me its some thing which had changed my attitude
I had started reading a book call Emotional intelligence. It’s a self-improvement book. It had explained that human has two type of brain one is emotional and one is intelligent. Well it had given a brief idea on what happen in brain when emotions are hijacking a person and how he looses his control on the intelligent brain. Well this analysis say that each person should be going through same phase in his life what we all go. But in practical since it doesn’t happens. We as a human have a learning attitude through out our life. We start the learning when we open our eyes for the first time. The emotion or feeling get developed in the small age i.e. when we are very small to understand what happing in the surrounded world. We learn this lessons from our parents. They teach us what the feelings are and how to manage them.
The Love, Care and Happiness, which we get from out parents, play a great role to develop our emotional intelligence.
Now what I had learned from the book is more précised then what I had mentioned. But there are few more things which had attracted me, is an old science i.e. Astrology and numerology, which explains an planetary influence on out attitude and characters which had given more info on my own personality, in astrology there are two dimensions Zodiac sign and Moon Sign and numerology had also given two different character of a single person. With both this number coming in different features in single person well nearly all the featured mention matched with my personality.
Psychology Astrology & Numerology had given a conclusion that we are single person with many different features and two different personalities.
Actually it’s not a sickness as per me. We take decision in our life with the help of these personalities we call it as emotional decision and brilliant decision.
“Every event in our life change our destiny, but the destiny totally depend on the decision we take on every event.”
So I started analysis myself for a period of time. Which had give fascinating conclusions.
You may feel it unrealistic but for me its some thing which had changed my attitude
I had started reading a book call Emotional intelligence. It’s a self-improvement book. It had explained that human has two type of brain one is emotional and one is intelligent. Well it had given a brief idea on what happen in brain when emotions are hijacking a person and how he looses his control on the intelligent brain. Well this analysis say that each person should be going through same phase in his life what we all go. But in practical since it doesn’t happens. We as a human have a learning attitude through out our life. We start the learning when we open our eyes for the first time. The emotion or feeling get developed in the small age i.e. when we are very small to understand what happing in the surrounded world. We learn this lessons from our parents. They teach us what the feelings are and how to manage them.
The Love, Care and Happiness, which we get from out parents, play a great role to develop our emotional intelligence.
Now what I had learned from the book is more précised then what I had mentioned. But there are few more things which had attracted me, is an old science i.e. Astrology and numerology, which explains an planetary influence on out attitude and characters which had given more info on my own personality, in astrology there are two dimensions Zodiac sign and Moon Sign and numerology had also given two different character of a single person. With both this number coming in different features in single person well nearly all the featured mention matched with my personality.
Psychology Astrology & Numerology had given a conclusion that we are single person with many different features and two different personalities.
Actually it’s not a sickness as per me. We take decision in our life with the help of these personalities we call it as emotional decision and brilliant decision.
“Every event in our life change our destiny, but the destiny totally depend on the decision we take on every event.”
Resolve the Reservation BUG.
Hip Hip Hurry!! Stay on Reservation!
For what we are happy?. And for what are we enjoying, can we just think what is happening today had happened many years back not in 1991. It happed in 1947 we got divided. In three countries, why? Simple British rule “ Divide and Rule” the same has been adopted by our government for ruling the country. Now they are dividing the country in many more parts on sub-caste. And we are allowing them to do so.
Now just think 27% of reservation for OBC in higher education (Seats which will not be even a lakh) will solve the problem of more then 100 cr OBC population in the entire country. And will this develop them to reach the mark, which they think general category had reach. Which I really doubt any one had reached. I think Mr Arjun singh(HRD Minister) need a proper mental treatment or his home work was not at all checked by his instructor.My Dear Friends, even 100% reservation in all the sectors will not solve the problems of any backward communities.
We need a change in the system. We need a resolution that can change our education infrastructure. Well with the population we have we are in crisis, we have to build more schools, colleges & higher education institutions to solve these problems. We cannot survive with the infrastructure, which was built in late nineties for our twenty first century.
So, instead of fighting against or for the reservation. Start a united fight for the development of the education sector and remove the bug of reservation, which was coded in the constitution of India.
For what we are happy?. And for what are we enjoying, can we just think what is happening today had happened many years back not in 1991. It happed in 1947 we got divided. In three countries, why? Simple British rule “ Divide and Rule” the same has been adopted by our government for ruling the country. Now they are dividing the country in many more parts on sub-caste. And we are allowing them to do so.
Now just think 27% of reservation for OBC in higher education (Seats which will not be even a lakh) will solve the problem of more then 100 cr OBC population in the entire country. And will this develop them to reach the mark, which they think general category had reach. Which I really doubt any one had reached. I think Mr Arjun singh(HRD Minister) need a proper mental treatment or his home work was not at all checked by his instructor.My Dear Friends, even 100% reservation in all the sectors will not solve the problems of any backward communities.
We need a change in the system. We need a resolution that can change our education infrastructure. Well with the population we have we are in crisis, we have to build more schools, colleges & higher education institutions to solve these problems. We cannot survive with the infrastructure, which was built in late nineties for our twenty first century.
So, instead of fighting against or for the reservation. Start a united fight for the development of the education sector and remove the bug of reservation, which was coded in the constitution of India.
Reform energy for India.
Every day we have different news in our daily newspaper. Now a day the hot topic is the energy crises faced by India. We as a developing country had failed to implement a proper infrastructure for our energy requirement.
We are still lacking behind in terms of Energy as we can see this in the state like Maharashtra which is getting burn in the hot summers without an basic facility as electricity now even the metro is also facing the same problem. Other parts of Maharashtra are nearly facing a power cut of 15hours on daily basis.
I think it the time we should be think of the Stone Age. Is our Shining India leaping back to stone age, as we are incapable to cater an appropriate fuel to our pursuit for development? What the solutions?
We as a citizen have to re-think on this issue. We are the people who consume the energy. We blame the government for not providing facilities to us. But are we using the energy with the respect it actually deserves. With the large population we are defiantly going to have such kind of scarcity of resources. As per the specialist it will take more 3 to four year to get ready for our current requirements. We should think of the alternative such as windmills, solar or Ocean Waves for the basic necessities, as this resources are available everywhere and it will not get exhausted even by excess use
Even if the Technology generates a huge amount of energy from any artificial mean or mode it will get vanished if we don’t conserve it.
We are still lacking behind in terms of Energy as we can see this in the state like Maharashtra which is getting burn in the hot summers without an basic facility as electricity now even the metro is also facing the same problem. Other parts of Maharashtra are nearly facing a power cut of 15hours on daily basis.
I think it the time we should be think of the Stone Age. Is our Shining India leaping back to stone age, as we are incapable to cater an appropriate fuel to our pursuit for development? What the solutions?
We as a citizen have to re-think on this issue. We are the people who consume the energy. We blame the government for not providing facilities to us. But are we using the energy with the respect it actually deserves. With the large population we are defiantly going to have such kind of scarcity of resources. As per the specialist it will take more 3 to four year to get ready for our current requirements. We should think of the alternative such as windmills, solar or Ocean Waves for the basic necessities, as this resources are available everywhere and it will not get exhausted even by excess use
Even if the Technology generates a huge amount of energy from any artificial mean or mode it will get vanished if we don’t conserve it.
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