Donate life

Why do you always think about death at such young age? Does u have any problem with life? These are the question my mom asks me when I tell her that I would like to donate my organs after my death. I never say that I want to die. Speaking about death don’t mean that I will be a victim, there are certain people who want to live as we do, but due to some illness or circumstances they can’t.

Death is uncertain it can occur anytime; no one wants to die. I can understand my mom’s feeling as she loves me and care for me, therefore she avoid me to speak about organ donation. Most of the parent will do the same.

Becoming a donor is not harmful; if certain event happens, due to which we may not survive, our organs can be useful for giving a live to needful. Donating our organs will not give us any pain after death. But waiting for death is much more painful for patients.

Instead of burning I think we all will be happy to donate our organs which will relive someone from enormous pain.

Deliverance of Earth

Human a beautiful creature made by the supreme power, the power which had allowed us to live on this planet, it had blessed us with the beauty of nature. But are we really worth of it?

With the current condition, we had proved that we are not worth of enjoying beauty of nature, because we don’t give respect to Mother Nature. Haven’t we seen the change in climatic condition in the recent years, the climate had changed coz we are ragging mother earth on daily basis.

I had seen people who are discussing about the global warming on discussion boards, forums and blogging, is that enough? We have to take actions, and we all have to sacrifice our gilded life for our mother nature.

The simples we can restrict the pollution (Air, Water and Noise). Yes, we all are participating in ragging our mother nature inadvertently. We are using vehicle in the city for transportations, sometime even for the walkable distance aren’t we? Crackers on diwali? Burning plastic waste? Etc .Why we should blame the industries for that for its huge volume, who is the ultimate consumers for that products?

Our own simplest efforts can make our mother nature healthy. We have to plant trees use eco fuel etc, but we even have to take care of the simplest and the micro things which we usually forget.

DISCOVERING LOVE

Finding someone who will be your partner for life is the most complex part of life. Specially loving partner, for some its gift from the heaven, they are able to discover love.

Well for people like me love is the rarest phenomena of the earth. I have been non professional consultant for many of my friends to maintain their relationships with the loved one, it had been successful. But the funnies part I never had any relation with anyone in my life. It’s not so that I never loved anyone but I am unsuccessful in that matter and my nightmare’s had struck, it was one of the worst disasters of my life

Life give precious lessons which may help me too, I had learn many lessons and guiding people to adapt the best root in their life. Respecting what we have is the key towards happiness and pleasure to life.

Those who have their mate respect them and don’t ever loose them, and those who haven’t keep discovering.....

Living Felicitous In Warring World

I was on a walk along the street; Things has changed a lot around, Big complexes, big towers, large showrooms had came to this small town, But what I eyed is there is small shop of a cobbler near the street. This shop exists since many years from the days when I was in school. But today this shop made me think.

This shop is not a shop for the owner it’s a house, he stay their along with his wife, that shop is approx 7 X 6fts, but this couple have their world in that. The strange thing is I had seen them together for more then 15 to 20yrs they haven’t changed.

I was wondering how do people can stay happily in today’s world, I really mean what I say how to stay happily with this competitive world which don’t give time to be happy i.e. to stay along with the people you love. As you have to cope with the competition, you have to sacrifice the precious time for fulfilling the wishes of the people you love.

I don’t know whether I am right or wrong but LOVE is something that makes you to do things differently. The lesson learned is Hell will be like Heaven with LOVE & Heaven will be like Hell without it

Seeking Someone

I am seeking someone, who will love me forever; I don’t know where she is?
I am unloved since ever, I am seeking for her love
I don’t know where I am; I want to know where she is?

I need her love to survive. Loneliness is killing me.
I loved her forever, she don’t feel the same for me.
I am seeking someone, who will love me forever; I don’t know where she is?

I am crying for her, she doesn’t realize my pain.
I am ready to die freaky, for a single smile from her
I am seeking someone, who will love me forever; I don’t know where she is?

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

From the First step of a child we ask him to learn. Yes, we learn the lessons of the mysteries world, with every step we take. From the childhood we are been asked to study hard so that we can be successful in our life.

But do really our studies help us to success in our life.. Or I mean to say does really the IQ decide what we are going to be. Most of the people say that those who are good in their studies are good in their carrier.

But does our IQ decide our future. Well most of the HR may be thinking this way. But success comes with the smartness we have. Well we must have seen good IQ peoples taking wrong decisions i.e. Smart turning to Dumb, What had made them to do so? Well the answer is EMOTIONS.

Yes EMOTIONS plays a vital role for the people to take decision. Most of the time we call it as HEART. In most of the living being there are two brains Emotional brain and intelligent brain i.e. we think in two ways emotionally as well as intellectually. But emotions power is higher as the ratio of the Emotion on Intelligent brain is 24:1 respectively.

We have different type of Emotions they get triggered with our senses i.e. Vision, Smell, hearing, taste & feel. It makes us social, loving caring etc.
Its an great boon for a human being but its has its own bad effects too. Such as anger and hatred

Emotions help us to maintain relationship in our social life with love and care. But at a certain points in life our emotion hijacks our intellectual powers, Such as heartbreak, depressions, Stress etc.

To recover for such situation it need time and acceptance, which is denied by the emotional brain.

Managing emotions make us a wise person in life and help us to achieve success. We can manage our own as well as others emotions. For managing emotion we need to understand emotions and to control them we need to know our self.

For more detail on the Emotional Intelligence go though the book

Author: Mr Danial Goleman,
Title: “EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE “
ISBN NO: 0-553-84007-X

Vindicate Living Beings

Animals in cage or if we keep them in, Its really annoying, its had became normal that people don’t feel anything about it, Its hard to digest that we call ourselves as human being, we had became immensely brutal that we can’t realize what these animals are going through. We are viscerally capturing their freedom

I don’t know whether animals have emotion or not, but I do think they have, they cry when they get hurt, which represent an emotional brain in their skull. Some people brutally beat them or either kicks them. Which represents our disrespect towards the gods beautiful creations

Rather they are not able to communicate with us, we keep these animals with us as a toy, so that when ever we like to play we can play with them and when ever we don’t want them around start kicking them, How materialistic we are.

We should respect all the living being rather they belong to our category or not. We have to change our attitude. Animals are not meant for amusement. They have the equal right to live like we all have. We should respect their qualities and give them the honor, which they deserve.

School Days

Recently I had a meet with few of my school friends along with the college ones. I am lucky to have these friends on the life path. The occasion was a friendship day, we where smiling and laughing about the incidents of our school days. After a long chat about school memories we had our dinner and left the place. At the journey towards my home I was wondering how things had changed since the school days. Few of the school colleges made me realized that I had changed. It’s not only me but all of us had changed.

Whenever we meet we share the different occasions of the school years, which we enjoyed our life the most. I don’t remember any such good incidents happened after those days. After our higher school we left to different directions to pursue our graduation and post graduation. Later to that jobs had discarded us. But once in a blue moon we meet and we stand at the same place where we left the last conversation, it’s amazing that friends has the same co-ordination thought out the life

Maturity and age cover over the mischiefs of the childish attitudes. This is the place where change takes place how I was in my school days and how I am right now. It’s a astronomical change in myself. I was really happy those days rather I was poor in my studies. I never use to get good grades but after a slight depression I use to be happy playing.

I was least bother about studies I use to enjoy myself. Chattering with the friend, planning for being together. I never had an ambition of being someone or which direction I will follow; I had followed what I got. I never though or planned for future. But the current me is exactly the opposite I am planning for future I have desires I am not satisfied with what I have. What had made me such a demanding person? Is this the legacy of competition? Had I started competing some thing or some one? I had become ambitious.

Might be our ambitions are not allowing us to be happy. Our desires, dreams and wants are surging us in the dysphoric trench. I agree that ambitions are for our growth towards success. But with the ambition we are not living happily its worthless. So instead of living for ambition keep an ambition of living happily might be an ultimate solution.

Brutal Love

Love, what is the true definition of this word? I will not be able to explain. What is it really? Physical attraction or deep feeling in your heart.

Why do people fall in love with those who don't? In the matter of success and failure I had been a victim. I don't know whether I am right or wrong, but it's sure that you fall in love. You never know when and how, an unacceptable happens which change your life. Insatiable feeling of love, dripping tears and flaming heart remains.

There are two different aspects when u fall, defiantly you get hurt and your life becomes miserable. You will get flooded with the emotional distress. Feeling of extreme love; you don't require any physical existence of the person you love they will always be in your mind. Something that hurt your sole will never get healed. The quest of death remain unrealized

A pain that will not let to live and responsibilities will not let you die. You will be in lethal trap of brutal love

Humane

"Supreme is unfair to me and I am unlucky since birth". These are the usual statement used by pessimists, we never understood, what god has provided us. We always blame god for awry, when we need something, we remember him, we always have tendency to ask, but what we give him in return, is not the worth he already provided us.


The supreme had given us, which cannot be prototyped by us. We don't realize the kind of happiness we have with all our senses in place. We seek more and more luxurious life we waste the resources without thinking that some one can utilize it for survival.


There are many people who die due to starvation, and due lack of basic necessities of life. We are those who have all the basis necessities, but never though of the people who are often seen at the roadside or in the remote villages struggling for survival.


Each and every person has dreams, we feel happy if they are fulfilled and get depressed when they are broken. But one thing we can do is at least we can fulfill small dreams of others, which are in our hands. The only difference is, we should realize how much happiness we can spread around just by giving a helping hand.

Objurgate Discrimination

We are living in the modern era of developing and developed countries. The last sentence represented that I had distinguished this world in two segments as developing and developed countries. Distinguishing is a habit, which had been transferred to mankind since long. We call this as point of view or our perception.

With the advance technologies we had globalize, we transform our thoughts in a convenient manner. Its also help us to emphasis the correct thought. Apparently it's really hard to say that someone's views are right or wrong, coz if its wrong for us it may be right for someone else. As human, each one of us has differential thoughts and views.

The groups of people with different views; influence discriminations in the society. The view create discrimination and not the religion or racial. Its not that discrimination happens at one place, it also happens with us or around us, even we all are playing equal role to promote discrimination, rather we are not discriminating anyone, but if we are not objurgate its we are allowing such ill activity to expand its branches.

Algorithm of LIFE

Time is a changing phenomenon; it cannot be stopped, reverted or forwarded. It had bonded all of us in its gyration. Time is the forth dimension, but it can be a factor of travel in algorithm of life.

We all face its each and every event with its effect, we cannot revert back even a micro second. So how can we say that we can change our destiny? Is destiny defined by the time or a galore of events with in the time frame?

Time is a key factor for all the living and non-living things in the universe. We have a chance of defining our as well as other destiny, just by creating a different dimension in the algorithm of life. If we know the probabilities of events happened or going to happen. Those probabilities will be the dimensions and Time will be a factor of travel between those dimensions.

Just let me explain

Event A has a probability of event B or event C and event B has a probability of event D and event E or event F and event G and event C has a probability of Event H and I or Event J and K.

It is just a simple matrix of event shown in the given example

Where as in the actual life we have a much more complex matrix, it’s an algorithm designed by the creator of the universe. Which is untraceable to us. This algorithm switch us from one world to another depending upon the probability matrix’s, due to the decision made by us in the complex events which are already designed by the creator of the universe.

In the algorithm of life, we have the key role of Time Travel we cannot alter the events, but we can take the best route of travel.

Religious Anathemize

If we are talking about Religion, it has different ways of analyzing. To an extend People have always abused it. So the question arise what is the actual definition of religion, had anyone ever understood the significance of it? Probably NO.

We can see that even today, after knowing the fact of mankind, we are still getting urged towards the brutality. We all know that Human grounded this earth before religion. Our an-sisters enforced religion for our wellbeing. But now it had started fastening us. Humans had started killing humans for the sake of religion.

Does any religion inspire to assassinate people? All the religions deliver the message of Love and Peace. None of the religion in the world will allege killing living being. God never created any religion for mankind, he never given boundaries of land, air or water to us. So who had set such felonious rules to us? These are the felons who are using religion for there advantage.

We as human should understand that we are not made for religion, religion is made for us and we should not get bonded to it. It's a laid principle by respected people, who never forced any one to follow it. The people, who are forcing it to us, are the followers of those principles, who never understood the basis concept of it.

We all have our own views of life and we should live in the same manner how we feel. We should not surrender our self to such Religious Curse.

Gaming !!

Games!! Ha ah now that's sound interesting. In our early age, we use to drew in for the rousing game and playing outdoor games was energizing, now a days the trend had changed and people can play these games with the help of keyboard, mouse and joysticks to relish themselves.

Playing games are not bonded with kids; we all like to play games specifically when it gives the same enjoyment what kids get. Adults can use it to release stress. Some people install these games at their office desktop, if they have huge stress at their work place, as it help them to divert their mind from the adhered task, get refreshed and start the work after a short break. This short break helps people to rethink on the same topic with a new prospect. Nowadays it is called as stress management, which is used by corporate world.

Transferring games had become easy due to computers and they are easily available in the pirated world. But it cannot contend with the actual outdoor games, which optimize our physical and mental endurance.

So to live life with full excitement, we should be kid for some time and play some outdoor games with same passion.

Reviling Modern Science

Few days back I received a message in one community portal from a person with the same date of birth what I am. I called him to have a chat, apparently we both born in the same Nakshatra as per the Indian astrology. We had a great talk with each other and we had shared the experience of each other’s life. It was strange that we where in the same profession, The coincident is that this person is the second person known to me who had born on the same date at approximate same location & time in India. The second fellow also shares the same profession with us.

One strange thing is that we three have most of the features in common and few things uncommon due to our family backgrounds. Its not that I don’t have faith in the 4000yrs old study on mankind, it’s was a great study made by man on the human behavior. I totally agree on the stars influences

But there is an intriguing question in my mind; does stars and Nakshatra’s will define what we are? Does the 4000yrs old study made us so reliable, that we make decision on the basis of what had written in a book of prediction and calculations without scientific evidence. For e.g. Some People break the marriages due to a Mangal Dosh in the Kundlies, even if they have a good understanding & chemistry.
When I think of such things its make me restless, that self-made principles are fastening us. Even people, who are highly educated, think in the same manner. Or the question is who will taste the Poison? Rather many people may taste it; some bad experiences will be impelled to raise the faith in old customs and revile modern science

Loving Living

Our daily schedules start with a wakeup alarm. A kick-start for being punctual at the workplace. Bathing, clothing, rushing breakfast and move to the local transport. Most of the working people do the same thing. At the evening we get back late due to the office work or due to the traffic congestions. At home we are not relaxed either, same stress continues there.

We all know the reality, what we are living is not the way to live or to survive on this planet. We all think a peaceful life, so what had made us so hungry that we are earning a lot but not satisfied

Youth of current generation had no idea where they are leaping. Money is following in the pockets to and fro. The new era of the country is making us hungrier for success. We are not stopping now. We are not satisfied with what we have

Today’s hunger for success had taken us far away from our own life. We spend less time with our family and friends. We are moving fast then what we should be. For our hunger we forgot the days when we were kids and use to go to the camps. The most fascinating experiences, yes where we really live for our self there are no worries. Enjoying the nature, with the green bushes and trees surround, hear the beat of our heart when we walk along the path, the birds singing, we can smell the nature, we can breath the fresh air.

Live for Others

Are you selfish? What will be your answer, of-course the answer will be NO.
No one think that they are selfish. But I think I am selfish. I will not lie with my self. I am living here for myself. It’s not bad if we are selfish.

So what happens when we need some one desperately, but he/she doesn’t need us? The preference level for both the person differs. We understand it, but making it understand to our own heart is tough. We loose the joy of life. Some people commit suicide due to long depression. And such kind of emotional distress makes people to do that. What is the solution on this critical issue, rather we except the fact, but it keep pinching us spontaneously

It does create enormous pain, sadness and hopelessness. It cannot be explained in word and we cannot stop the tears of our eyes. We need the person we love. But we can’t make him/her love us. We had totally lost some one. There is no such feeling, which can make our days again, unless or until we forget the wounds. People say some wounds never heal.
When we love some one with true heart, we will never have any grievance again him/her. Rather its hurt a lot spending sleepless night with teary eyes

The only way to live with the unhealed wounds is to live for other, try to heal the wounds of others make us feel better. There is no great feeling then helping other to overcome their distress or suffering. Making others smile is the best medicine and making the person smile that had wounded us is True Love.

Life is precious so never loose it, live with what we have, and keeping on trying to achieve more in life, there are ups and downs in life. Without failure we will not understand the joy of success. Without a Heart Break we will never understand True Love.

Self Analysis

An emotional distress few days back influenced me to do a research on myself. To know about me, what had caused such distress, why such emotional hijacking happed, were the biggest Questions in my mind.

So I started analysis myself for a period of time. Which had give fascinating conclusions.
You may feel it unrealistic but for me its some thing which had changed my attitude

I had started reading a book call Emotional intelligence. It’s a self-improvement book. It had explained that human has two type of brain one is emotional and one is intelligent. Well it had given a brief idea on what happen in brain when emotions are hijacking a person and how he looses his control on the intelligent brain. Well this analysis say that each person should be going through same phase in his life what we all go. But in practical since it doesn’t happens. We as a human have a learning attitude through out our life. We start the learning when we open our eyes for the first time. The emotion or feeling get developed in the small age i.e. when we are very small to understand what happing in the surrounded world. We learn this lessons from our parents. They teach us what the feelings are and how to manage them.

The Love, Care and Happiness, which we get from out parents, play a great role to develop our emotional intelligence.

Now what I had learned from the book is more précised then what I had mentioned. But there are few more things which had attracted me, is an old science i.e. Astrology and numerology, which explains an planetary influence on out attitude and characters which had given more info on my own personality, in astrology there are two dimensions Zodiac sign and Moon Sign and numerology had also given two different character of a single person. With both this number coming in different features in single person well nearly all the featured mention matched with my personality.

Psychology Astrology & Numerology had given a conclusion that we are single person with many different features and two different personalities.

Actually it’s not a sickness as per me. We take decision in our life with the help of these personalities we call it as emotional decision and brilliant decision.

“Every event in our life change our destiny, but the destiny totally depend on the decision we take on every event.”

Resolve the Reservation BUG.

Hip Hip Hurry!! Stay on Reservation!

For what we are happy?. And for what are we enjoying, can we just think what is happening today had happened many years back not in 1991. It happed in 1947 we got divided. In three countries, why? Simple British rule “ Divide and Rule” the same has been adopted by our government for ruling the country. Now they are dividing the country in many more parts on sub-caste. And we are allowing them to do so.

Now just think 27% of reservation for OBC in higher education (Seats which will not be even a lakh) will solve the problem of more then 100 cr OBC population in the entire country. And will this develop them to reach the mark, which they think general category had reach. Which I really doubt any one had reached. I think Mr Arjun singh(HRD Minister) need a proper mental treatment or his home work was not at all checked by his instructor.My Dear Friends, even 100% reservation in all the sectors will not solve the problems of any backward communities.
We need a change in the system. We need a resolution that can change our education infrastructure. Well with the population we have we are in crisis, we have to build more schools, colleges & higher education institutions to solve these problems. We cannot survive with the infrastructure, which was built in late nineties for our twenty first century.

So, instead of fighting against or for the reservation. Start a united fight for the development of the education sector and remove the bug of reservation, which was coded in the constitution of India.

Reform energy for India.

Every day we have different news in our daily newspaper. Now a day the hot topic is the energy crises faced by India. We as a developing country had failed to implement a proper infrastructure for our energy requirement.
We are still lacking behind in terms of Energy as we can see this in the state like Maharashtra which is getting burn in the hot summers without an basic facility as electricity now even the metro is also facing the same problem. Other parts of Maharashtra are nearly facing a power cut of 15hours on daily basis.
I think it the time we should be think of the Stone Age. Is our Shining India leaping back to stone age, as we are incapable to cater an appropriate fuel to our pursuit for development? What the solutions?

We as a citizen have to re-think on this issue. We are the people who consume the energy. We blame the government for not providing facilities to us. But are we using the energy with the respect it actually deserves. With the large population we are defiantly going to have such kind of scarcity of resources. As per the specialist it will take more 3 to four year to get ready for our current requirements. We should think of the alternative such as windmills, solar or Ocean Waves for the basic necessities, as this resources are available everywhere and it will not get exhausted even by excess use

Even if the Technology generates a huge amount of energy from any artificial mean or mode it will get vanished if we don’t conserve it.