EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

From the First step of a child we ask him to learn. Yes, we learn the lessons of the mysteries world, with every step we take. From the childhood we are been asked to study hard so that we can be successful in our life.

But do really our studies help us to success in our life.. Or I mean to say does really the IQ decide what we are going to be. Most of the people say that those who are good in their studies are good in their carrier.

But does our IQ decide our future. Well most of the HR may be thinking this way. But success comes with the smartness we have. Well we must have seen good IQ peoples taking wrong decisions i.e. Smart turning to Dumb, What had made them to do so? Well the answer is EMOTIONS.

Yes EMOTIONS plays a vital role for the people to take decision. Most of the time we call it as HEART. In most of the living being there are two brains Emotional brain and intelligent brain i.e. we think in two ways emotionally as well as intellectually. But emotions power is higher as the ratio of the Emotion on Intelligent brain is 24:1 respectively.

We have different type of Emotions they get triggered with our senses i.e. Vision, Smell, hearing, taste & feel. It makes us social, loving caring etc.
Its an great boon for a human being but its has its own bad effects too. Such as anger and hatred

Emotions help us to maintain relationship in our social life with love and care. But at a certain points in life our emotion hijacks our intellectual powers, Such as heartbreak, depressions, Stress etc.

To recover for such situation it need time and acceptance, which is denied by the emotional brain.

Managing emotions make us a wise person in life and help us to achieve success. We can manage our own as well as others emotions. For managing emotion we need to understand emotions and to control them we need to know our self.

For more detail on the Emotional Intelligence go though the book

Author: Mr Danial Goleman,
Title: “EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE “
ISBN NO: 0-553-84007-X