Finding someone who will be your partner for life is the most complex part of life. Specially loving partner, for some its gift from the heaven, they are able to discover love.
Well for people like me love is the rarest phenomena of the earth. I have been non professional consultant for many of my friends to maintain their relationships with the loved one, it had been successful. But the funnies part I never had any relation with anyone in my life. It’s not so that I never loved anyone but I am unsuccessful in that matter and my nightmare’s had struck, it was one of the worst disasters of my life
Life give precious lessons which may help me too, I had learn many lessons and guiding people to adapt the best root in their life. Respecting what we have is the key towards happiness and pleasure to life.
Those who have their mate respect them and don’t ever loose them, and those who haven’t keep discovering.....
Sunday, September 30, 2007
Saturday, September 15, 2007
Living Felicitous In Warring World
I was on a walk along the street; Things has changed a lot around, Big complexes, big towers, large showrooms had came to this small town, But what I eyed is there is small shop of a cobbler near the street. This shop exists since many years from the days when I was in school. But today this shop made me think.
This shop is not a shop for the owner it’s a house, he stay their along with his wife, that shop is approx 7 X 6fts, but this couple have their world in that. The strange thing is I had seen them together for more then 15 to 20yrs they haven’t changed.
I was wondering how do people can stay happily in today’s world, I really mean what I say how to stay happily with this competitive world which don’t give time to be happy i.e. to stay along with the people you love. As you have to cope with the competition, you have to sacrifice the precious time for fulfilling the wishes of the people you love.
I don’t know whether I am right or wrong but LOVE is something that makes you to do things differently. The lesson learned is Hell will be like Heaven with LOVE & Heaven will be like Hell without it
This shop is not a shop for the owner it’s a house, he stay their along with his wife, that shop is approx 7 X 6fts, but this couple have their world in that. The strange thing is I had seen them together for more then 15 to 20yrs they haven’t changed.
I was wondering how do people can stay happily in today’s world, I really mean what I say how to stay happily with this competitive world which don’t give time to be happy i.e. to stay along with the people you love. As you have to cope with the competition, you have to sacrifice the precious time for fulfilling the wishes of the people you love.
I don’t know whether I am right or wrong but LOVE is something that makes you to do things differently. The lesson learned is Hell will be like Heaven with LOVE & Heaven will be like Hell without it
Seeking Someone
I am seeking someone, who will love me forever; I don’t know where she is?
I am unloved since ever, I am seeking for her love
I don’t know where I am; I want to know where she is?
I need her love to survive. Loneliness is killing me.
I loved her forever, she don’t feel the same for me.
I am seeking someone, who will love me forever; I don’t know where she is?
I am crying for her, she doesn’t realize my pain.
I am ready to die freaky, for a single smile from her
I am seeking someone, who will love me forever; I don’t know where she is?
I am unloved since ever, I am seeking for her love
I don’t know where I am; I want to know where she is?
I need her love to survive. Loneliness is killing me.
I loved her forever, she don’t feel the same for me.
I am seeking someone, who will love me forever; I don’t know where she is?
I am crying for her, she doesn’t realize my pain.
I am ready to die freaky, for a single smile from her
I am seeking someone, who will love me forever; I don’t know where she is?
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
From the First step of a child we ask him to learn. Yes, we learn the lessons of the mysteries world, with every step we take. From the childhood we are been asked to study hard so that we can be successful in our life.
But do really our studies help us to success in our life.. Or I mean to say does really the IQ decide what we are going to be. Most of the people say that those who are good in their studies are good in their carrier.
But does our IQ decide our future. Well most of the HR may be thinking this way. But success comes with the smartness we have. Well we must have seen good IQ peoples taking wrong decisions i.e. Smart turning to Dumb, What had made them to do so? Well the answer is EMOTIONS.
Yes EMOTIONS plays a vital role for the people to take decision. Most of the time we call it as HEART. In most of the living being there are two brains Emotional brain and intelligent brain i.e. we think in two ways emotionally as well as intellectually. But emotions power is higher as the ratio of the Emotion on Intelligent brain is 24:1 respectively.
We have different type of Emotions they get triggered with our senses i.e. Vision, Smell, hearing, taste & feel. It makes us social, loving caring etc.
Its an great boon for a human being but its has its own bad effects too. Such as anger and hatred
Emotions help us to maintain relationship in our social life with love and care. But at a certain points in life our emotion hijacks our intellectual powers, Such as heartbreak, depressions, Stress etc.
To recover for such situation it need time and acceptance, which is denied by the emotional brain.
Managing emotions make us a wise person in life and help us to achieve success. We can manage our own as well as others emotions. For managing emotion we need to understand emotions and to control them we need to know our self.
For more detail on the Emotional Intelligence go though the book
Author: Mr Danial Goleman,
Title: “EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE “
ISBN NO: 0-553-84007-X
But do really our studies help us to success in our life.. Or I mean to say does really the IQ decide what we are going to be. Most of the people say that those who are good in their studies are good in their carrier.
But does our IQ decide our future. Well most of the HR may be thinking this way. But success comes with the smartness we have. Well we must have seen good IQ peoples taking wrong decisions i.e. Smart turning to Dumb, What had made them to do so? Well the answer is EMOTIONS.
Yes EMOTIONS plays a vital role for the people to take decision. Most of the time we call it as HEART. In most of the living being there are two brains Emotional brain and intelligent brain i.e. we think in two ways emotionally as well as intellectually. But emotions power is higher as the ratio of the Emotion on Intelligent brain is 24:1 respectively.
We have different type of Emotions they get triggered with our senses i.e. Vision, Smell, hearing, taste & feel. It makes us social, loving caring etc.
Its an great boon for a human being but its has its own bad effects too. Such as anger and hatred
Emotions help us to maintain relationship in our social life with love and care. But at a certain points in life our emotion hijacks our intellectual powers, Such as heartbreak, depressions, Stress etc.
To recover for such situation it need time and acceptance, which is denied by the emotional brain.
Managing emotions make us a wise person in life and help us to achieve success. We can manage our own as well as others emotions. For managing emotion we need to understand emotions and to control them we need to know our self.
For more detail on the Emotional Intelligence go though the book
Author: Mr Danial Goleman,
Title: “EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE “
ISBN NO: 0-553-84007-X
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