Wednesday, February 27, 2008

ACCOMPLISH YOUR DESIRES!!

Urge for happiness is not restricted to human being, even animals have this unsatiable desire. Human had dug their heels to find solutions for satisfying the need of happiness. Many scholars spend their wisdom to achieve it, even after millions years of life on earth humans are unable to achieve it.

Leave all ‘Moha and Maya’ will give happiness had being thought by many religions i.e. sacrifice all your desires will lead to happiness, and yes its ‘True’. My question arise what is the use of living then, leaving all your desires means surrendering before fighting. Instead trying to achieve your desires and give your best if you can’t will defiantly improve your living, rather loosing will make you sad but happiness will definably be their, if you win.

When someone wins definably someone has to loose. Best or stronger always win, but winning with evil deed can never give you happiness.

Being true to your self and trying to achieve your desires irrelevant of what individuals or society thinks, will defiantly lead’s a path towards happiness.

Friday, February 1, 2008

VASCO DA GAMA TREK (Kalaad Ghad via SadleGhat)

Kalaad Ghad when I heard the name I was expecting something different, Kalaad ghad is an isolated fort which is near from Harishchandra ghad comes in Malshej Region, to reach kalaad we have to reach Pachnai or Paythachi vadi, there are different wayout to reach, but we opted sadhleghat as it was new trek for us.

We were eight trekker Rohan Rao, Vijay Rao, Anil Gaikwad, Sujay Gawand, Shirish Thorat,Deepa ,Hemant & Rajendra Bandal. Six of us started from Kalyan at 12.30PM and reach Savarne Village by 2.30PM, Hemant and Deepa join us at savarne village. We all had a quaking sleep at the village School, we waked up early in the morning, climate was very chilled at Savarne, so we had tea in near by house and started trekking towards Belpada which took around 90min, Belpada was not new to us, coz just month back we had trek of Nalichi vat to Harishchadra ghad. We had bananas & cucumber as our breakfast and moved towards Sadhleghat. We missed out kelevadi in between and climbed the adjacent ridge which was the first indication that we took wrong route. After an hour of traversing through the bushes, scree, thorns & monkey climbs we reach the Paaiwat of sadhleghat.

Sadhle ghat has a pretty decent paaiwat, but once missed it will be hard to find it again, anyway this trek was “Vasco da gama Trek” as per Sujay. Sadhle ghat has good view of Napta at its left, it has a water resource on the way which is after ¾ of the trek. On the way we found a villager who headed us to paithachiwadi, we had teplas as our lunch but it was around 4.30PM we reach the road which connect paithachiwadi and pachnai. when we reach at the top of sadhle ghat left will take’s us to Kalaad ghad and right will take us to Harishchandra ghad which is an hour trek from their, while our journey towards paithachiwadi Rohan had deadly crams and shirish was wincing on every step as he had pain in his knees, we reached near paythachiwadi Anil, Rohan, shirish and myself decided to stay back and let other visit kalaad ghad. Anil and Myself rushed to the village and started preparation for our dinner.

We had our dinner at around 8.30PM and slept outside the village cottage, by mid night we all started shivering even when we all were coved with sweaters, windshitter and blankets, it was freezing cold that night. We were supposed to catch early morning bus, but we missed it. So instead of trekking to bhairavghad we decided to climb down sadleghat. We ask the villager to head us till starting point of the ghat. Sadhleghat decend is quite steep with the huge rocks, this route was different from where we climbed. The villager told us that this route later join Sadhleghat he asked us to take left on the bifurcation, which was never seen by any of us and again we landed on the no mans land i.e. we were again lost in the hills, so we decided that we will climb down and see if there any way out which lead us to sadhleghat but we came at a point which was a dead end for me. But we had climbing expert in our group (Rohan Rao), who decided to descend the steep rock patch. Luckly we had a rope, which was anchored (clove-hitch) to the rock by Rohan. We all were supposed to climb down by holding the rope in our hands without a harness or glows. Hence the total dependence was on our skills to handle the rope as it gets heated due to friction. Rohan had not taken any risk so he tide us with ‘bo-line’ and we descended with static ‘bilay’.

First was Anil who climb down without any hesitation next was Hemant who did not trust the rope and after some whirl he climbed down safely and asked Deepa to follow, later I did an brave move and decided to climb down, later Sujay joined me and next was Shirish its was a special snap series for him as he was not ready to remove his goggles and he was jumping on the rocks as if he was fully equipped for rappelling, luckily anil was near to him for rescue and he saved him from losing his balance. Later vijay and rohan came down with elegance.
After a great search, we ultimate found the route. We decided to have some snacks near the water resource, we had bread jam and moved fast towards belpada, as sun was descending in the horizon we moved our feet’s fast and reach savarne and a wonderful trek came to an end.

Nature has the ability to teach us and show its beauty it its own way. Trekking had always taught me new lessons of life. “Confidence with positive attitude will always cross hurdles of life”

To reach Kalaad Ghad:
Kalyan > Savarne Village > Belpada> Kelevadi > Sadhle Ghat > KalaadGhad / Harishchadra Ghad

Thursday, January 17, 2008

Destination Tringalwadi.

New dawn of the year had arrived twelve days back, and I was thinking to place myself in the arms of mother nature, Nisarga Bhraman’s tringalwadi trek came as a ray of hope and my senses impelled me to join them.

About Group:
Nisarga Bhraman is pretty well organized group, with technically talented and enthusiastic group leaders; their jolly and friendly attitude had always impressed me I had enjoyed several treks with them before, so I had no hesitation to join them.

About Tringalwadi Fort:
Tringalwadi is relatively small fort with height of 3238ft (987Mtr) on Kalsubai Range in Nashik region. As per the information available this fort exists from 10th century, This fort was among the seven forts which where given to moghals along with the royal property by Maratha Chief Sahaji when he was forced to capitulate at Mahuli fort in October 1636. Information about the period of Maratha rule on this fort is not available.

How to Reach:
Tringalwadi is near to Igatpuri so we have to reach Igatpuri station which has good railway connectivity between Mumbai and Nashik. After getting down at Igatpuri we have to walk towards the ST Stand, there is a junction called Ambedkar chowk, from there we have to walk towards vagholi col and from their towards Tringalwadi village. From Igatpuri Station Tringalwadi is approximately an hour walking distance. We can also take local transport (Jeep) from Igatpuri to Tringalwadi but Frequency of these jeeps is unknown. As we reach the Tringalwadi village we can go through the dam and Tringalwadi fort will be just in front of us.

Overview of Fort Sights:
Tringalwadi fort is small to climb the whole fort can be seen in a days span

Entrances of the fort:
There are two entrances of the fort one is from the front side and another is from backside, when we are facing the fort the right side path leads us to the front entrance and the left leads us to the back entrance, which is also called as ‘Chor darwaja ‘.

The front side entrance of the fort with some of the broken steps leads us to the top of the fort. A beautiful view of the dam can be seen while entering the fort and sunrise view will be making this site more fascinating.

For the back entrance we have to traverse through the right side of the fort and at the end we can see the back entrance, which is really wonderful and well preserved, as it was buried under for several years, which was uncovered by some trekking group few years back. The carved steps are still intact except few in the beginning of the door, which gives us the feel of entering the ancient warriors’ world. The steps are broad and huge; we can sense the strategic location of those steps totally covered and rolling upwards towards the fort making it more awesome, as soon you climb the steps we can see the idol of lord Hanuman in front of the door this idol is a big and carved in the rock. The door is in good condition and we can see some carving on the door. Entering the door and moving further we will be on the top of the fort.



Remnants of the Fort:
As usual this fort is also not in good condition as far as the monuments are concern, as we land on the fort we can take a overview of the place we will find the remnants of the fort. The view of the remnants can be taken from the top most point of the fort. We can see four to five water tanks on the fort. One is consist of drinking water other are drained out just waking further we can see a small temple along with worshiped idols. It is small sole temple on the fort. Before the temple there is a small cave which has a capacity to accommodate 15 to 20 people but the flooring of the cave is not good enough to have night stay.


Water availability on the Fort:
There are few dried water tanks on the fort and one small tank is filled with drinking water, as per the local people the water in that tanks is available for all the seasons.


Tringalwadi Cave (Pandavleni):
At the base of the fort we can see the ancient cave which is carved in the rock. This cave has wonderful carving on the roof, pillars and walls. This cave is not preserved or maintained by anyone. Such kinds of monuments are self preserved and this will be the common site in Maharashtra. I consider myself lucky that I had got the chance to view this wonderful monuments and their carving, which I don’t feel will exist for long if they are not maintained properly. As we enter the cave we can see the broken pillars. Rather those are broken but its can be easily visualized that there was four carved pillars. We can see only one pillar which is still intact with its beautiful carving as we move further and enter the next chamber we can see an big idol with broken face, its really hard to say that whether this idol is of lord Mahavir or Gautam Buddha.

While returning I was wondering how many battles would this forts must have seen, how many strategies the warriors would have made to capture them, how many rulers must have tagged their name on them, but why are they still alone? The closest companion to them must be the time which once passed can never be retrieved and it had laid them shrilled.

After this small and refreshing trek ultimately with lot of fun we started our journey way back home.
Picture Sources: Album of Sujay, Hemant Naik & Sameer Patel

Monday, November 19, 2007

Donate life

Why do you always think about death at such young age? Does u have any problem with life? These are the question my mom asks me when I tell her that I would like to donate my organs after my death. I never say that I want to die. Speaking about death don’t mean that I will be a victim, there are certain people who want to live as we do, but due to some illness or circumstances they can’t.

Death is uncertain it can occur anytime; no one wants to die. I can understand my mom’s feeling as she loves me and care for me, therefore she avoid me to speak about organ donation. Most of the parent will do the same.

Becoming a donor is not harmful; if certain event happens, due to which we may not survive, our organs can be useful for giving a live to needful. Donating our organs will not give us any pain after death. But waiting for death is much more painful for patients.

Instead of burning I think we all will be happy to donate our organs which will relive someone from enormous pain.

Monday, November 12, 2007

Deliverance of Earth

Human a beautiful creature made by the supreme power, the power which had allowed us to live on this planet, it had blessed us with the beauty of nature. But are we really worth of it?

With the current condition, we had proved that we are not worth of enjoying beauty of nature, because we don’t give respect to Mother Nature. Haven’t we seen the change in climatic condition in the recent years, the climate had changed coz we are ragging mother earth on daily basis.

I had seen people who are discussing about the global warming on discussion boards, forums and blogging, is that enough? We have to take actions, and we all have to sacrifice our gilded life for our mother nature.

The simples we can restrict the pollution (Air, Water and Noise). Yes, we all are participating in ragging our mother nature inadvertently. We are using vehicle in the city for transportations, sometime even for the walkable distance aren’t we? Crackers on diwali? Burning plastic waste? Etc .Why we should blame the industries for that for its huge volume, who is the ultimate consumers for that products?

Our own simplest efforts can make our mother nature healthy. We have to plant trees use eco fuel etc, but we even have to take care of the simplest and the micro things which we usually forget.

Sunday, September 30, 2007

DISCOVERING LOVE

Finding someone who will be your partner for life is the most complex part of life. Specially loving partner, for some its gift from the heaven, they are able to discover love.

Well for people like me love is the rarest phenomena of the earth. I have been non professional consultant for many of my friends to maintain their relationships with the loved one, it had been successful. But the funnies part I never had any relation with anyone in my life. It’s not so that I never loved anyone but I am unsuccessful in that matter and my nightmare’s had struck, it was one of the worst disasters of my life

Life give precious lessons which may help me too, I had learn many lessons and guiding people to adapt the best root in their life. Respecting what we have is the key towards happiness and pleasure to life.

Those who have their mate respect them and don’t ever loose them, and those who haven’t keep discovering.....

Saturday, September 15, 2007

Living Felicitous In Warring World

I was on a walk along the street; Things has changed a lot around, Big complexes, big towers, large showrooms had came to this small town, But what I eyed is there is small shop of a cobbler near the street. This shop exists since many years from the days when I was in school. But today this shop made me think.

This shop is not a shop for the owner it’s a house, he stay their along with his wife, that shop is approx 7 X 6fts, but this couple have their world in that. The strange thing is I had seen them together for more then 15 to 20yrs they haven’t changed.

I was wondering how do people can stay happily in today’s world, I really mean what I say how to stay happily with this competitive world which don’t give time to be happy i.e. to stay along with the people you love. As you have to cope with the competition, you have to sacrifice the precious time for fulfilling the wishes of the people you love.

I don’t know whether I am right or wrong but LOVE is something that makes you to do things differently. The lesson learned is Hell will be like Heaven with LOVE & Heaven will be like Hell without it

Seeking Someone

I am seeking someone, who will love me forever; I don’t know where she is?
I am unloved since ever, I am seeking for her love
I don’t know where I am; I want to know where she is?

I need her love to survive. Loneliness is killing me.
I loved her forever, she don’t feel the same for me.
I am seeking someone, who will love me forever; I don’t know where she is?

I am crying for her, she doesn’t realize my pain.
I am ready to die freaky, for a single smile from her
I am seeking someone, who will love me forever; I don’t know where she is?

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

From the First step of a child we ask him to learn. Yes, we learn the lessons of the mysteries world, with every step we take. From the childhood we are been asked to study hard so that we can be successful in our life.

But do really our studies help us to success in our life.. Or I mean to say does really the IQ decide what we are going to be. Most of the people say that those who are good in their studies are good in their carrier.

But does our IQ decide our future. Well most of the HR may be thinking this way. But success comes with the smartness we have. Well we must have seen good IQ peoples taking wrong decisions i.e. Smart turning to Dumb, What had made them to do so? Well the answer is EMOTIONS.

Yes EMOTIONS plays a vital role for the people to take decision. Most of the time we call it as HEART. In most of the living being there are two brains Emotional brain and intelligent brain i.e. we think in two ways emotionally as well as intellectually. But emotions power is higher as the ratio of the Emotion on Intelligent brain is 24:1 respectively.

We have different type of Emotions they get triggered with our senses i.e. Vision, Smell, hearing, taste & feel. It makes us social, loving caring etc.
Its an great boon for a human being but its has its own bad effects too. Such as anger and hatred

Emotions help us to maintain relationship in our social life with love and care. But at a certain points in life our emotion hijacks our intellectual powers, Such as heartbreak, depressions, Stress etc.

To recover for such situation it need time and acceptance, which is denied by the emotional brain.

Managing emotions make us a wise person in life and help us to achieve success. We can manage our own as well as others emotions. For managing emotion we need to understand emotions and to control them we need to know our self.

For more detail on the Emotional Intelligence go though the book

Author: Mr Danial Goleman,
Title: “EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE “
ISBN NO: 0-553-84007-X

Friday, August 10, 2007

Vindicate Living Beings

Animals in cage or if we keep them in, Its really annoying, its had became normal that people don’t feel anything about it, Its hard to digest that we call ourselves as human being, we had became immensely brutal that we can’t realize what these animals are going through. We are viscerally capturing their freedom

I don’t know whether animals have emotion or not, but I do think they have, they cry when they get hurt, which represent an emotional brain in their skull. Some people brutally beat them or either kicks them. Which represents our disrespect towards the gods beautiful creations

Rather they are not able to communicate with us, we keep these animals with us as a toy, so that when ever we like to play we can play with them and when ever we don’t want them around start kicking them, How materialistic we are.

We should respect all the living being rather they belong to our category or not. We have to change our attitude. Animals are not meant for amusement. They have the equal right to live like we all have. We should respect their qualities and give them the honor, which they deserve.

Monday, August 6, 2007

School Days

Recently I had a meet with few of my school friends along with the college ones. I am lucky to have these friends on the life path. The occasion was a friendship day, we where smiling and laughing about the incidents of our school days. After a long chat about school memories we had our dinner and left the place. At the journey towards my home I was wondering how things had changed since the school days. Few of the school colleges made me realized that I had changed. It’s not only me but all of us had changed.

Whenever we meet we share the different occasions of the school years, which we enjoyed our life the most. I don’t remember any such good incidents happened after those days. After our higher school we left to different directions to pursue our graduation and post graduation. Later to that jobs had discarded us. But once in a blue moon we meet and we stand at the same place where we left the last conversation, it’s amazing that friends has the same co-ordination thought out the life

Maturity and age cover over the mischiefs of the childish attitudes. This is the place where change takes place how I was in my school days and how I am right now. It’s a astronomical change in myself. I was really happy those days rather I was poor in my studies. I never use to get good grades but after a slight depression I use to be happy playing.

I was least bother about studies I use to enjoy myself. Chattering with the friend, planning for being together. I never had an ambition of being someone or which direction I will follow; I had followed what I got. I never though or planned for future. But the current me is exactly the opposite I am planning for future I have desires I am not satisfied with what I have. What had made me such a demanding person? Is this the legacy of competition? Had I started competing some thing or some one? I had become ambitious.

Might be our ambitions are not allowing us to be happy. Our desires, dreams and wants are surging us in the dysphoric trench. I agree that ambitions are for our growth towards success. But with the ambition we are not living happily its worthless. So instead of living for ambition keep an ambition of living happily might be an ultimate solution.

Friday, July 27, 2007

Brutal Love

Love, what is the true definition of this word? I will not be able to explain. What is it really? Physical attraction or deep feeling in your heart.

Why do people fall in love with those who don't? In the matter of success and failure I had been a victim. I don't know whether I am right or wrong, but it's sure that you fall in love. You never know when and how, an unacceptable happens which change your life. Insatiable feeling of love, dripping tears and flaming heart remains.

There are two different aspects when u fall, defiantly you get hurt and your life becomes miserable. You will get flooded with the emotional distress. Feeling of extreme love; you don't require any physical existence of the person you love they will always be in your mind. Something that hurt your sole will never get healed. The quest of death remain unrealized

A pain that will not let to live and responsibilities will not let you die. You will be in lethal trap of brutal love

Thursday, July 19, 2007

Humane

"Supreme is unfair to me and I am unlucky since birth". These are the usual statement used by pessimists, we never understood, what god has provided us. We always blame god for awry, when we need something, we remember him, we always have tendency to ask, but what we give him in return, is not the worth he already provided us.


The supreme had given us, which cannot be prototyped by us. We don't realize the kind of happiness we have with all our senses in place. We seek more and more luxurious life we waste the resources without thinking that some one can utilize it for survival.


There are many people who die due to starvation, and due lack of basic necessities of life. We are those who have all the basis necessities, but never though of the people who are often seen at the roadside or in the remote villages struggling for survival.


Each and every person has dreams, we feel happy if they are fulfilled and get depressed when they are broken. But one thing we can do is at least we can fulfill small dreams of others, which are in our hands. The only difference is, we should realize how much happiness we can spread around just by giving a helping hand.

Objurgate Discrimination

We are living in the modern era of developing and developed countries. The last sentence represented that I had distinguished this world in two segments as developing and developed countries. Distinguishing is a habit, which had been transferred to mankind since long. We call this as point of view or our perception.

With the advance technologies we had globalize, we transform our thoughts in a convenient manner. Its also help us to emphasis the correct thought. Apparently it's really hard to say that someone's views are right or wrong, coz if its wrong for us it may be right for someone else. As human, each one of us has differential thoughts and views.

The groups of people with different views; influence discriminations in the society. The view create discrimination and not the religion or racial. Its not that discrimination happens at one place, it also happens with us or around us, even we all are playing equal role to promote discrimination, rather we are not discriminating anyone, but if we are not objurgate its we are allowing such ill activity to expand its branches.

Thursday, June 21, 2007

Algorithm of LIFE

Time is a changing phenomenon; it cannot be stopped, reverted or forwarded. It had bonded all of us in its gyration. Time is the forth dimension, but it can be a factor of travel in algorithm of life.

We all face its each and every event with its effect, we cannot revert back even a micro second. So how can we say that we can change our destiny? Is destiny defined by the time or a galore of events with in the time frame?

Time is a key factor for all the living and non-living things in the universe. We have a chance of defining our as well as other destiny, just by creating a different dimension in the algorithm of life. If we know the probabilities of events happened or going to happen. Those probabilities will be the dimensions and Time will be a factor of travel between those dimensions.

Just let me explain

Event A has a probability of event B or event C and event B has a probability of event D and event E or event F and event G and event C has a probability of Event H and I or Event J and K.

It is just a simple matrix of event shown in the given example

Where as in the actual life we have a much more complex matrix, it’s an algorithm designed by the creator of the universe. Which is untraceable to us. This algorithm switch us from one world to another depending upon the probability matrix’s, due to the decision made by us in the complex events which are already designed by the creator of the universe.

In the algorithm of life, we have the key role of Time Travel we cannot alter the events, but we can take the best route of travel.

Saturday, June 9, 2007

Religious Anathemize

If we are talking about Religion, it has different ways of analyzing. To an extend People have always abused it. So the question arise what is the actual definition of religion, had anyone ever understood the significance of it? Probably NO.

We can see that even today, after knowing the fact of mankind, we are still getting urged towards the brutality. We all know that Human grounded this earth before religion. Our an-sisters enforced religion for our wellbeing. But now it had started fastening us. Humans had started killing humans for the sake of religion.

Does any religion inspire to assassinate people? All the religions deliver the message of Love and Peace. None of the religion in the world will allege killing living being. God never created any religion for mankind, he never given boundaries of land, air or water to us. So who had set such felonious rules to us? These are the felons who are using religion for there advantage.

We as human should understand that we are not made for religion, religion is made for us and we should not get bonded to it. It's a laid principle by respected people, who never forced any one to follow it. The people, who are forcing it to us, are the followers of those principles, who never understood the basis concept of it.

We all have our own views of life and we should live in the same manner how we feel. We should not surrender our self to such Religious Curse.

Friday, June 8, 2007

Gaming !!

Games!! Ha ah now that's sound interesting. In our early age, we use to drew in for the rousing game and playing outdoor games was energizing, now a days the trend had changed and people can play these games with the help of keyboard, mouse and joysticks to relish themselves.

Playing games are not bonded with kids; we all like to play games specifically when it gives the same enjoyment what kids get. Adults can use it to release stress. Some people install these games at their office desktop, if they have huge stress at their work place, as it help them to divert their mind from the adhered task, get refreshed and start the work after a short break. This short break helps people to rethink on the same topic with a new prospect. Nowadays it is called as stress management, which is used by corporate world.

Transferring games had become easy due to computers and they are easily available in the pirated world. But it cannot contend with the actual outdoor games, which optimize our physical and mental endurance.

So to live life with full excitement, we should be kid for some time and play some outdoor games with same passion.

Friday, June 1, 2007

Reviling Modern Science

Few days back I received a message in one community portal from a person with the same date of birth what I am. I called him to have a chat, apparently we both born in the same Nakshatra as per the Indian astrology. We had a great talk with each other and we had shared the experience of each other’s life. It was strange that we where in the same profession, The coincident is that this person is the second person known to me who had born on the same date at approximate same location & time in India. The second fellow also shares the same profession with us.

One strange thing is that we three have most of the features in common and few things uncommon due to our family backgrounds. Its not that I don’t have faith in the 4000yrs old study on mankind, it’s was a great study made by man on the human behavior. I totally agree on the stars influences

But there is an intriguing question in my mind; does stars and Nakshatra’s will define what we are? Does the 4000yrs old study made us so reliable, that we make decision on the basis of what had written in a book of prediction and calculations without scientific evidence. For e.g. Some People break the marriages due to a Mangal Dosh in the Kundlies, even if they have a good understanding & chemistry.
When I think of such things its make me restless, that self-made principles are fastening us. Even people, who are highly educated, think in the same manner. Or the question is who will taste the Poison? Rather many people may taste it; some bad experiences will be impelled to raise the faith in old customs and revile modern science

Sunday, May 27, 2007

Loving Living

Our daily schedules start with a wakeup alarm. A kick-start for being punctual at the workplace. Bathing, clothing, rushing breakfast and move to the local transport. Most of the working people do the same thing. At the evening we get back late due to the office work or due to the traffic congestions. At home we are not relaxed either, same stress continues there.

We all know the reality, what we are living is not the way to live or to survive on this planet. We all think a peaceful life, so what had made us so hungry that we are earning a lot but not satisfied

Youth of current generation had no idea where they are leaping. Money is following in the pockets to and fro. The new era of the country is making us hungrier for success. We are not stopping now. We are not satisfied with what we have

Today’s hunger for success had taken us far away from our own life. We spend less time with our family and friends. We are moving fast then what we should be. For our hunger we forgot the days when we were kids and use to go to the camps. The most fascinating experiences, yes where we really live for our self there are no worries. Enjoying the nature, with the green bushes and trees surround, hear the beat of our heart when we walk along the path, the birds singing, we can smell the nature, we can breath the fresh air.

Live for Others

Are you selfish? What will be your answer, of-course the answer will be NO.
No one think that they are selfish. But I think I am selfish. I will not lie with my self. I am living here for myself. It’s not bad if we are selfish.

So what happens when we need some one desperately, but he/she doesn’t need us? The preference level for both the person differs. We understand it, but making it understand to our own heart is tough. We loose the joy of life. Some people commit suicide due to long depression. And such kind of emotional distress makes people to do that. What is the solution on this critical issue, rather we except the fact, but it keep pinching us spontaneously

It does create enormous pain, sadness and hopelessness. It cannot be explained in word and we cannot stop the tears of our eyes. We need the person we love. But we can’t make him/her love us. We had totally lost some one. There is no such feeling, which can make our days again, unless or until we forget the wounds. People say some wounds never heal.
When we love some one with true heart, we will never have any grievance again him/her. Rather its hurt a lot spending sleepless night with teary eyes

The only way to live with the unhealed wounds is to live for other, try to heal the wounds of others make us feel better. There is no great feeling then helping other to overcome their distress or suffering. Making others smile is the best medicine and making the person smile that had wounded us is True Love.

Life is precious so never loose it, live with what we have, and keeping on trying to achieve more in life, there are ups and downs in life. Without failure we will not understand the joy of success. Without a Heart Break we will never understand True Love.